on Nov 19th, 2008 
For some reason the theme of many of my discussions lately seems to be anal sex. It’s come up over and over, which I am beginning to take as some sort of cosmic message. I’m not complaining-I’m learning a lot! Which is coming in handy lately (and that’s as much TMI as you’re getting from me today).
For those of you who have done it or would like to, give me your thoughts! Do you like it, hate it? Is it something you’ll do for your partner but aren’t exactly thrilled about it? Is it scary to you? Does it make you feel vulnerable? Emotional? Dirty? Does my talking about it make you feel dirty? I gotta say, it makes me feel dirty, but in a good way. I think. It’s a topic I’m trying to become more comfortable with, and I need your help! No-not that kind of help-I just want to discuss it in an open and mature fashion. Um..maybe ‘mature’ isn’t entirely necessary.
So-who among you is brave enough to come of the blogosphere closet and dish with me about anal? Give me your thoughts, rants, suggestions (What’s the best lube? Best toys?). I want to hear it all!
Meanwhile, here is one of my favorite YouTube videos ever! (WARNING-adult and possibly offensive content!)
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I love that video.
No comment about that other stuff…I’m the innocent Smutketeer.
by Crystal Jordan November 19th, 2008 at 3:45 pm(crickets)
anal makes me hot. there. said it.
good luck on your bravery on the topic, and glad to hear you may have reason to use your research. it’s nice you found someone!
i think i might possibly be high on sinus meds right now.
loved the video. was that a cock ring the male singer was wearing as a necklace?
by Mima November 19th, 2008 at 10:12 pmI’ll play. It took me six years to get comfortable with the idea. At first, I had no idea how to make it pleasurable for me.
by Jennifer McKenzie November 19th, 2008 at 10:22 pmLube Lube Lube Lube is sooooooooooo important.
Enough “training” and anyone can enjoy it I think. I started with fingers. (Not mine. Hey now). Moved up to “better” things and now I don’t like to go without.
For me, it requires LOTS of preparation. No Italian Foreplay will do. (You know. What is Italian Foreplay? *peck on the lips* You ready?)
The trick is that I have to totally trust my partner. Completely.
Yeah, I can hear Crystal screaming.
Okay, I’m smutty enough to admit I LOVE it. Totally love it, when I’m in the right mood that is. It’s hot n raunchy and wild and exciting. There, I said it!
by Elaina November 19th, 2008 at 10:29 pmI have to say that I’ve had moments where I’ve seriously considered it, but only with my hubby, who shows no real interest in anal at all.
My previous partner wanted it all the time, talked about it all the time, even *demanded* it from time to time (and no, he didn’t get it)! His constant insistence was a total turn-off, and until I met the hubby, I figured anal was something I’d never even consider for the most fleeting moment.
Now…? Well, there are times…
And Jennifer, I’m really sorry you’ve had that version of “Italian foreplay”. I can only promise you that others exist. (Maybe you had the New York variety? LOL!) In fact, there’s a reason I’ve “Come around”, on the topic at hand, and it’s due to the Italian who’s not interested in it. ;)
Ciao for now, y’all!
by MsMenozzi November 20th, 2008 at 5:10 amThanks so much for being brave enough to share, ladies. :)
by edenbradley November 20th, 2008 at 9:34 pmFor me, it’s an emotional issue, and I’m really wondering if it is for others-and some of you have agreed. It’s good to know I’m not the only one!
I actually do take it up the ….. and enjoy it too. It does take some time to acclimate yourself to it. I like to use a vibrator for double the pleasure and it helps me to relax the muscles. I highly recommend it for frequent and strong orgasms. My tips are lots of lube, relax and use a vibrator to keep you from focusing on any early discomfort and before you know it, you’ll be an anal queen too. LOL
Deidre
by Deidre November 21st, 2008 at 2:32 pmHi people
As newly registered user i only want to say hello to everyone else who uses this bbs :>
by sicixtomcoiff December 19th, 2008 at 1:32 pm