on Oct 14th, 2009 
Biting. There are a lot of reasons women like the idea of being of being bitten. As Crystal said, the idea of being “marked” is hot. Men who bite are often vampires, and vampires are hot. And a man who knows how to bite is often pretty darn alpha, and come one. We all know that’s hot.
But I like it for a different reason. Biting, licking, sucking…it happens on places of the body that are major erogenous zones, and ones that don’t include the two major places people tend to focus on, the genitals and breasts. Although nipples can be very fun to bite, nibbling other places of the body can escalate sex in such a way because it explores areas that often go ignored. So let’s explore!
Take the neck, for instance. Say you have a partner who takes your head and tilts you in just such a way to expose your neck. He can do whatever he wants. The curve of the neck is a sensitive and open. You know that feeling you get when someone’s hot breath puffs onto your skin, followed by warm lips, maybe a sharp nip of teeth. I don’t know about you, but that that sensation sends shiver straight to my toes. And the slower they do it the better. It’s a position of submission, and if your partner knows what he or she’s doing…wowza!
Other places that are fun to be bitten are the shoulders (especially the back of the shoulders), ears, inner thighs, the small of the back, hands and fingertips, and of course the obvious place like breasts. Really, there are unlimited places on the body to be bitten, and it’s fun to explore. Next time you’re kissing someone, pull his tongue into your mouth and give it a nip. Yummy!
See, I don’t want to imply that girls are the only ones who want to be on the receiving end of a nibbling mouth. Ladies, get out there and give your man a bite! Now, you can’t just go in a rip a chunk of flesh out with your teeth. You need to start slow. Place a hand on your man, firmly, hold him steady, and start leisurely. Give him a nibble, a lick, stop and kiss his mouth. Then go back, this time, maybe, do things a bit harder. See how he’s reacting. If he seems to like what you’re doing, keep going, and add some pressure! Biting is a kind of oral sex, and you can build up sensation as you would do if you were, say, giving a blow-job. Trust me on this. ☺
Have fun. Go bite someone.
And tell me your favorite place to bite or be bitten. You might win a copy of my Samhain e-book, Sting of Desire!
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I’m suddenly very turned on. Which is not fair because Cookie’s at work. lol
by R.G. Alexander October 14th, 2009 at 9:48 amAt least you have Cookie! :)
by Feisty October 14th, 2009 at 9:50 amOh favorite place. Where my neck and shoulder meet, my hip, my…bottom (what? he likes to bite my bottom-is that tmi?)
by R.G. Alexander October 14th, 2009 at 9:51 amHmmm….mmmm…..Um…what was I going to say…? Oh yes…I love to be bitten, hard or soft, depending on the moment. The neck is always good-why is that? But I like it when he bites my shoulders, the inside of my wrists, anywhere on my back, which is a very sensitive zone for me. And there are a few other places I probably shouldn’t mention so publicly…:)
by edenbradley October 14th, 2009 at 9:55 amYes, R.G. You know we never do the TMI thing. :)
Eden, wrists are definitely one of the hottest places to be bitten!! And to bite. :)
by Feisty October 14th, 2009 at 10:05 amOh yes, bite me. Favorite place… other than the curve of my neck, the curve of my ass is nice, too.
by Inez Kelley October 14th, 2009 at 10:05 amThe way I see it, if you have someone biting your ass, they’ve taken the time to really get to know you! *G* No fly-by-night ass biting, please!
by Feisty October 14th, 2009 at 10:07 amNot exactly a bite, but I’ve found that one of the best places to nibble is the skin above the joint of the thigh and the hip.
I usually have to chain my partner down for that.
by Rob Graham October 14th, 2009 at 10:18 amWondering if phoning hubbie at work and suggesting a ‘quick bite for lunch’, if he’d go for it?
I love been bitten and nibbled, sucked and kissed anywhere on the neck. I’m giving away couple secrets here, but my partner enjoys getting chest nibbles–anywhere on his chest. Shush, you didn’t hear that from me!
by Jo K October 14th, 2009 at 11:11 amThe very base of my spine. Ah-ma-zing.
I like to nibble hubby’s collar bone. He claims it does great things for him ;)
by JonettaC October 14th, 2009 at 11:25 amOh Rob, chains are yummy. :)
Don’t worry, Jo. We won’t say anything.
Jonetta, I know, right?? The base of the spine is a very neglected sexy-zone.
by msfeisty October 14th, 2009 at 12:10 pmI was going to comment earlier, but didn’t manage to. Now I see that Rob took my spot! Basically, the tendon, between hip and groin, on the inside of my leg?…I love it, but I agree with the chains – although usually rope! I can’t stay still for it. As for R, I usually sneak up and bite his upper back. He loves it; he didn’t know he enjoyed being bitten until I started doing that to him.
by Natasha A. October 14th, 2009 at 5:33 pmFavorite spot is the curve of my neck. Sends shivers down my spine when hubby nibbles there. He’s pretty sensitive there too.!
by annalisa October 14th, 2009 at 10:43 pmI think mine is the back of the neck :).
by Pam S October 15th, 2009 at 9:49 amLOL, thanks to this thread — biting galore last night– I’ve had to spend the day sporting a nice scarf. hehe
by Jo K October 15th, 2009 at 3:17 pmthe back of my knee caps, straight tingles to the nape of my neck *sigh* oh and the bottom yum
by jennifer mathis October 15th, 2009 at 5:16 pmI love the back of my neck, the right side though (that’s just weird little me), and the back of my knees, especially when he runs his whiskered chin across them.
by Cathy M October 16th, 2009 at 7:33 pmWell let’s see, my neck is super sensitive and the hubster likes to nibble whenever I give him the chance, but it is a very erotic place for vampire love bites and the obvious choice as it is most likely to be exposed. However, I’ve read books where they were bitten on the inside of the thighs, particularly close to the groin and also on the booty. Frankly, I see no downside to either.
Deidre
by Deidre October 16th, 2009 at 7:36 pmThe inner thigh and my side, just above my hip bone.
My husband knows that if he nips either of those places, I’ll come unglued.
As for him, just below his belly drives him insane.
It’s fascinating how diff. bodies react differantly.
Fallon H.
by Fallon Hadley October 18th, 2009 at 1:46 pmExploring different areas to bite will definitely be an interesting experience. I can’t say where my favorite area is yet, though, since I’ve not been bitten…
by Karin October 18th, 2009 at 3:30 pmJonetta, you won my book! Give a shout at lilli@lillianfeisty.com and I’ll send it to you.
I pick randomly, but thinking about being bit on the base of my spine… A lovely way to start the day!
by Feisty October 19th, 2009 at 10:48 amYay Jonetta!
Congrats!
by fallon hadley October 19th, 2009 at 12:01 pmMy neck
by Amy s. October 20th, 2009 at 12:02 pmWTG Jonetta!
by Amy s. October 20th, 2009 at 12:22 pmI forgot to put my ears and shoulders.
by Amy s. October 20th, 2009 at 12:24 pmCongrats Jonetta!
by Jo K October 20th, 2009 at 12:28 pmI should have known that I am not the only one who loves to be bitten in the back. I have a favorite spot that I love to be bitten. I have had four people bite my back. I was seven when I had a two-year-old boy who was my “brother” bite my back. He was the son of my first foster parents. I did not know why I had him bite my back. I did not know anything about sex at the time, but it sure felt so good when he bit my favorite spot on my back. I had him bite very hard.
The second one was four years old and he was and is a family friend of mine. I would have him bite my back hard until I could not stand the pain and had him stop. I would have him “surprise” me and bite my back. I loved the feeling and pain as it felt so very good and made me tingle all over my body.
The third person was my former best friend. I would ask him to bite my back hard so that it would be very painful and when it got very painful, I had him stop. He asked me to do the same thing, but he did not want me to bite his back as hard. That was one time that we did that with each other.
The fourth and final time was with my fiancee. I had shown her my back and she saw a scab on it because I was making my favorite part of my back be in extreme pain. I asked her to bite my back as hard as she could, but she didn’t. She did bite my back to cause just a little pain and she pinched it as well. She told me that she bit off the scab from my back and tasted my blood. It felt very good when she bite my wound. She put a little bit of alcohol on it and it was a little painful, but felt very good. I had realized that it was sexually arousing for me for my favorite part of my back to be in extreme pain. I would love for it to be torn off so that it can be in so much pain. I know that it will be extremely painful, yet it will be sexually arousing for me!! :)
It was my senior year in high school that I had realized I was not alone in my thoughts in anything I think about. I read a book by an author named Charlotte Bronte. She and her two sisters had a fantasy of having their own kingdoms. I had a fantasy very similar to that also when I was twelve years old. Since then, I realized that I am not alone in my thoughts about anything I think about.
by Immortal Phoenix Cat November 8th, 2009 at 1:05 pm